THE INTEGRATED MAN
are you willing to risk who you’ve been, for who you truly are?
For the man who’s flirting with the edge—but hasn’t yet jumped. This is your invitation, your INITIATION.
THE INTEGRATED MAN is a high-touch, 12-month cohort for accomplished men who have made their millions and are ready to transform their relentless drive into fuel for deep trust, radical aliveness, and emotional freedom—in service to something greater.
There came a point in my life where I had to ask myself the question I now ask every man I mentor:
What are you willing to risk for full aliveness?
For me, and for most, the answer to that question is being willing to feeling some really uncomfortable shit. Will you go there with me?
The answer meant a radical shift for me—from making millions to practicing celibacy for 6 months.
From alpha dominance to sacred stewardship. From being seen as successful… to being witnessed in my truth.
This isn’t a program. It’s an invitation, an initiation… to risk who you’ve been, for who you truly are.
12 months - 10 men - 1 container
Do you have the balls to let yourself be truly seen?
To feel deeply uncomfortable?
Hi, it's Benjamin (Bee), co-founder of KAVANÂ
As a son to Cuban immigrant parents, my path began with a relentless drive to win—shaped by grocery store aisles, constant hustle, and the silent pressure to prove my worth.
My family and I built an empire with 1,800 employees. Sold it.
Made big investments. Burned out. I stood at the peak and felt... numb.
It took a rock bottom moment—a lawsuit, my father’s death, and a deep spiritual unraveling—to bring me to my knees and ask:
What am I actually here for? WHY WAS I PUT ON THIS EARTH?
I’ve spent hundreds of thousands of dollars and most of my life in personal development—what I’d call the intellectual layer.
The last decade? Devoted to embodied transformation.
I’ve sat in and led men’s circles for 15+ years—YPO, Tiger21, Vistage, Alder. I’ve been guided by coaches, therapists, shamans, and elders.
And now, I want to share what I’ve learned.
This is my heart, laid bare in devotion.
I’m not your coach. I’m your brother.
I am here to help you remember why you came here.
To hold up the mirror. To walk beside you.
To sit in the fire with you.
THE INTEGRATED MAN
I’m inviting 10 men into a high-touch container—designed to collapse a decade of personal development into one year of embodied transformation.
This is for the man who’s done with surface-level growth and is ready to go all in.
By the end of this year-long journey, you will have:
Integrated the parts of you that once felt fragmented—from intellect to intuition, from drive to devotion.
Transformed your relationship to power, sex, money, and purpose—not as things to control, but forces to partner with.
Cultivated the capacity to lead with your nervous system regulated, your heart open, and your voice clear.
Rewired outdated masculine programming and redefined success through the lens of stewardship, not performance.
Felt the unwavering support of a brotherhood that sees your greatness and refuses to let you play small.
Released the “locked” parts of your story and finally felt what it means to be whole.
Accelerated your personal evolution—collapsing a decade of searching into one potent, embodied year.
Why this, WHY NOW?
We live in a world obsessed with performance. Scale. Speed. Hustle.
And yet, the planet is not asking for more burnt-out men chasing a finish line that doesn’t exist.
She is asking for attuned men. Regulated men. Reverent men.
Men who can hold power and presence.
Wealth and wisdom.
Discomfort and devotion.
We do not need more answers. We need NEW questions.
We do not need more domination. We need integration.
This is not a course.
This is not a mastermind.
This is a sacred container—a space where men lead each other home AND discover what it means to live FULLY alive.
This is where high-capacity men come to pause, rewire, and activate a new operating system that integrates achievement with embodiment, intellect with intuition, alpha with omega.
Are you THIS man?
You’ve built the business, made the money, but quietly wonders: is this it?
You feel the call for something deeper—but haven’t found a space safe enough, strong enough, sacred enough to go there?
You’re tired of leading alone—and longs for a brotherhood that both reveres and challenges you?
You wants to feel powerful without being performative?
You know there’s more to access—more depth, more clarity, more truth—and are ready to risk comfort to get there?
You no longer need to prove your worth in the boardroom, the bedroom, or the bank account.
You’ve stopped chasing. You’ve stopped performing.
You lead with presence—not pressure.
Your nervous system is no longer hijacked by urgency or fear.
You walk into every room—grounded, clear, dangerous in the best way.
You’ve evolved your relationship to money.
You’ve reclaimed your sexuality from addiction, numbness, or performance.
You’ve faced the hidden parts of your story—the childhood lock that was running your life—and you’ve burned it clean.
You know when to push. And when to surrender.
Your decisions now come from alignment, not anxiety.
You trust yourself. And because of that, others trust you, too.
You’ve built kingdoms. Now you’re building legacies.
Your leadership is no longer extractive—it’s regenerative.
You’re no longer the performer. You’re the presence.
Who you are ON THE OTHER SIDE…
This is what it looks like when a man goes all in.
This is what it means to live as the INTEGRATED MAN.
This group is intentionally small.
MAX 10 men
you’re in alignment IF you…
Are already living with purpose, or feel the undeniable call to
Are deeply committed to your growth
Are holding space for others in some way (teams, companies, families, communities)
Are ready to strip away what’s performative and live in the raw truth
Are willing to risk your comfort for full aliveness
Are ready to go ALL-IN
you’re NOT a fit if you…
Need to be convinced to show up for yourself
Want someone to fix you
Are not willing to be seen, stretched, and softened
Do not have a desire to make a massive impact in the world
The CONTAINER
HELD BY BENJAMIN BEQUER
12-Month Commitment | Starting May 28
3x Monthly Zoom Calls
Aligned Action Sprints (peer-led)
Processing Sessions (led by Bee)
Thematic Sessions (with Bee & Azrya Bequer, Astrid Brinck, and guest mentors)
2x In-Person Retreats at KAVANÂ, Mexico
Work with indigenous healing modalities optional and based on group alignment
Hosted across the KAVANÂ/MUSA grounds
Accommodation, food, and third party expenses not included.
Daily Ritual Frameworks
Breathwork, tea, meditation prompts
Private WhatsApp Group for real-time connection
Exclusive Access to future expeditions & retreats
- some examples include -
Treks around Sacred Mountains “Kora’s” (i.e. Tibet, Andes, Himalayas)
Sacred Medicine Journeys in the Jungle
Co-ed immersions with curated women’s circles
KAVANÂ festivals and experiences
The WORK & THEMES
These themes will evolve based on the group.
Nothing is pre-packaged. Everything is emergent.
The Lock, The Key, The Unlocked
Belonging & Brotherhood
Identity & Storytelling
Power, Prosperity & Sacred Stewardship
Sexuality & Devotion
Rage, Repression & Somatic Expression
Archetypes
Alpha & Omega
Spirituality & Death Practice
Integration & Celebration
This isn’t theory. This is a bone-deep, soul-level INITIATION.
The TRANSFORMATION you’re here for…
This is 1-year sacred accelerator—a container of brotherhood, integration, and embodied leadership designed to collapse a decade of personal development into one potent, transformational arc.
The ALIGNMENT PROCESS
Join a group Discovery Call with Bee, Astrid & Azrya
Apply
One-on-one interview with a member of the KAVANÂ team
One-on-one interview with Bee as needed
Bee will extend a personal invite to those in alignment.
Secure your spot with payment in full or 1st month.
If you’ve made it this far…
chances are something in you ALREADY KNOWS.
You’re not here to collect more strategies. You’re not here to play it safe.
You’re here because there’s something you haven’t touched yet.
Something deeper. More honest. More alive.
I built this container for the man who’s ready to go all in—on himself, his purpose, his truth.
For the man who’s done performing.
For the man who’s ready to feel what he’s been avoiding.
To burn what no longer serves.
To lead from trust. To live fully, finally, as himself.
This isn’t for everyone. But if you’re feeling the pull, I trust you know.
You don’t have to do this alone. I’ll be in it with you—fully.
Let’s f**king go.
YOUR GUIDE & BROTHER
Benjamin is a seasoned entrepreneur and devoted guide—committed to supporting high-achieving men in evolving beyond success into embodied leadership, emotional freedom, and legacy-level impact. He operates at the intersection of business acumen, personal transformation, and spiritual depth.
After helping grow his family’s business to over 1,800 employees and hundreds of millions in annual revenue, Benjamin turned inward—embarking on a decade-long journey of transformation guided by coaches, therapists, shamans, and elders. With over 15 years in men’s groups including YPO, Tiger21, Vistage, and Alder, he brings grounded presence, lived wisdom, and fierce heart to every container he holds.
He walks beside men who are ready to sit in the fire, become stripped awake, and remember who they truly are.